Moving really slow to blog today, no excuse really. I had date two last night. The wine was good, the food sublime and the chat mellow, I think I have a slight case of veisalgia today though. 😉 It was fun and he hasn’t thrown me off the Bridge of Lions… yet. I have to think so much before making any step I ever make, I’m not much for jumping into anything with both feet, so time will tell. Benjamin Franklin once said, “Be slow in choosing a friend, slower in changing.” Being a quiet speck, it sometimes takes people time to get used to me and when they ask me every ten minutes “are you okay?” just because I am being quiet, well, it kind of rankles. Some people are just that way, some of us are watchers and thinkers is all. I am the same in Second Life with friends. So just try not to count us out, we will get there eventually, and when we do, you will have a friend for life because watchers and thinkers are typically a pretty loyal lot. Just think about it, we had a hard time acclimating to you as a friend, do you think we are going to just throw it all away in a blink of the eye? I know I wouldn’t, starting over scares the heck out of me. Just know, I’m here, I’m just feeling my way over to there.
Take from? The quote? It really, really applies to Second Life. It’s so easy to believe the person you are speaking with is face value and honest with you but sometimes, sadly, its just an act. So perhaps it behooves you to be slow in choosing close friends but also, be even slower about letting those friends change you. Because sometimes, well actually probably most times, those changes they are making to you? They don’t fit right. They are like seeing a pair of Christian Louboutin’s heels at an affordable price but they just don’t quite have your size. After you buy them and put them on, they may be fine for the first hour or so, but after that, your just going to be walking around barefoot and carrying them around with you. And really, shouldn’t your friends like you as you are anyway? Just something to think about. Give it a little time, it’ll make sense after some deep thought.
Watch: GizzA, Asia *NEW*****
Outfit: GizzA, Black Seduction *NEW*******
Hair: Boon, KOM372
Ring: Pididdle, Brown Fox
HairPiece: Glam Affair, “I Follow Rivers” and “Fiora Antler”
Makeup: Mons Dark lipgloss & ZIBSKA, Cleo
Boa: *SoliDea FoliEs* part of Amanda & Miamai, Whisper night
Hosery: Angel Dessous, gorgeous
Shoos: Diktator, Dare