Emotional Bondage

Emotional Bondage

I can’t say I like golf all that much, especially watching it. But I do listen to news, well, nope that’s not true. I hate the news. But I watch sports news, doesn’t seem like there would be too much angst there, right? And if you listen close enough, every once in a while, tucked within the story is a life lesson. Having no particular alliance with any golfer, I found it a bit funny that there is an ongoing “tif” between Sergio Garcia and Tiger Woods. I always thought, for the most part, professionals of any sport, even online modeling, at least pretended to act, um, professional. Well apparently in golf, all decorum of propriety need not apply. Over the years these two have done more hissy-fitting than any manly man should do. But in the end, the only two people who suffer are the two participants. The rest of us spectators sit back and enjoy the show with a laugh and chalk up their losses to their own bad karma, there is no superior prowess betwixt one or the other. Perhaps they should sit down and look at this feud, resolve to be indifferent and move on.

Emotional Bondage

Take from? Yes, of course! When you find a person in life you just can’t possibly get along with, and sometimes YOU just might be the one who is toxic, remaining engaged in a feud with them creates nothing but emotional bondage. For one thing, people around you may take sides, but it’s as silly as a playground argument honestly. Because when you think people are taking your side, more than likely they are just hollow words. They may offer support but in reality they are just watching the show. Free yourself from this bondage by accepting you and this person won’t see eye to eye and move on. You may lose a battle, but in the end the person who practices to leave only an air of good karma, should reap the rewards of taking the higher road. It may not be instantaneous, but somewhere, sometime I whole-heartedly believe it is repaid in spades. But really, if I am wrong, whats the harm in growing up and acting like the mature one every once in a while?

This *SoliDea FoliEs* headpiece is one of the incredible offerings of the newest L’Accessoire’s event which starts May 15,2013. I checked out the inventory today, it’s a dont miss event, so make sure you stop by! SLURL’s are here, “Last Known SLURL’s” page Link:. See? Just a Lil Cao passing around some good karma.

Outfit One:
Headpiece: *SoliDea FoliEs*, Pris **L’Accessoire’s**
Hair: Miamai, Roe
Top of outfit: *SoliDea FoliEs*, Noir Waves
Bottom of outfit: Eshi, Aria Pompadour
Boots: Belgravia, Electra
Makeup: Mons ❤
Pose: Del May

20 thoughts on “Emotional Bondage

  1. VERY well said and I couldn’t agree more….I just walk away and keep moving forward. Getting caught up in the pettiness of acrimony is a huge waste of time; that I am unwilling to invest. As to taking sides…I always look with a more careful eye at the person who “carries” a story to me…my instincts tell me what they are really carrying to me is their agenda. I’d rather keep my mouth shut and look the fool…than to open it and remove all doubt. LOVE the styling in this post. Have a fabulous day. <3<3

  2. Ah, but a bit of acrimony amongst celebrities garners more press! I often think it is all part of the show.

    You, on the other hand, dear Cao, are a show all your own! Beautiful and wise :*

  3. always love to see what you have to say, and of course what you are wearing when you say it lol. Another stunning look. Obviously those two are little boys pretending to be men…….not to good at it so maybe should just play golf…xoxo Cao

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