The End of the Affair

Love never dies a natural death. It dies because we don’t know how to replenish its source. It dies of blindness and errors and betrayals. It dies of illness and wounds; it dies of weariness, of witherings, of tarnishings. ~Anais Nin

The End of the Affair Hat: Baoba, Delicaty red **L’Accessoires** . Hair: Tuty’s, Adorable . Jewelry: Kungler’s, Divinae, Tamarindo .

Nope, no particular reason for that quote or the song. That I know of. Nevermind, maybe there is afterall. A friend is going through this right now, and I want him to know, he isn’t alone. So many go through the end of a relationship, it’s the way of the world. We live in a paperlined wasteful society where it is just as easy to discard a relationship as it is to take out the trash. This one relationship may not have worked out, but keep the faith. I believe all the failed relationships we incur over a lifetime are merely stepping stones that lead our hearts to what is right for us. Whether it’s to be alone or with another. Because in the last love you will have, you will know what your are looking for, and what you are not.

The End of the AffairCorset: *SoliDea FoliEs*, Happy Holidays **L’Accessoires** .

Take from? Yes, all great relationships begin with a love of self, a knowledge of who you are and what you want and a willingness to not smother these things for the needs of another. Life is a process of becoming, who you are now is not who you will be in ten years, heck even in two days from now, because life constantly changes. And when it’s time, you will find someone compatible enough you can grow together as a tree, strong at the roots, but apart at the limbs assured that though you spread your limbs in different directions the roots are what bind you together. I hope you feel better soon.

The End of the AffairShoos: {{BSD}} Shoe Designs, Heaven Angry Red Bird .

9 thoughts on “The End of the Affair

  1. speaking of love……………I love those chooooze lol. I have basically given up on finding that other half. I think alone is good for the most part, and though I have left the door with a minuscule crack for that someone to enter they would really really have to put forth the effort. Sometimes we stay solo for so long it is hard for us to give enough of ourselves to make a relationship thrive I think. Maybe we just have not met the right person or maybe we are meant to be alone but as long as we love ourselves and enjoy our own company we can be alone without being lonly. We also have people that enter our lives like Lil Cao did and they too keep us from being utterly alone. Then there is me P.I.C.K.Y. lol

    1. no I agree, I think some of us find it a blessing that we can be happy and alone. And picky is good actually, why settle Spirit? ❤ Love you and have a happy weekend! We should be having some gorgeous weather! 🙂

  2. I’m sorry for your friend, but I’m happy to say I was worried this was the demise of Dr Ben Dover! Your heart is so big that it takes a special someone to fill it. If it’s not Taylor, then there WILL be that perfect soul who can share my lil Cao’s heart. Somewhere, sometime ♥

    And I agree with Spirit…those chooz are worthy of a heartbreak 😉

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