For Jeremy, Rebecca and 12 Others

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I’ve been called to the carpet regarding my Robin Williams blog. I think one of my readers felt I was in agreement with the two men who said Robin Williams was selfish. I want to note I in no way support their comments, in fact, my point on bringing it up was to firmly express that instead of focusing on labels we should use his death to help others who suffer from depression and chose the song “How to Save A Life” by The Fray because I once heard the writer of the song, Isaac Slade, comment that his work with a teenage suicidal youth was the basis for the song. I’m very sorry if my post was misinterpreted. Putting that aside, I’d like to remind everyone school is starting again, please, let’s be vigilant about another of my passionate topics, bullying. Bullied victims are more likely to consider suicide than non-bullied victims. Today I want to repost a blog post I wrote on August 29, 2013. Not because I am feeling lazy, it’s because I feel it’s that important. Important enough that in the hopes my words will help one single victim, I am proud to be a broken record.

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January 8, 1991. Jeremy Wade Delle. Had he lived, Jeremy would be thirty-eight years old now. Jeremy Wade Delle, the sixteen year old teenager who was so despondent with life he walked out of his classroom, came back with a .357 revolver, stood in the front of the class, said “I got what I really went for” and shot himself in the head. Jeremy Wade Delle, whose obituary encompassed one small paragraph, nestled neatly, quietly, in the interior pages of the newspaper. He died as he had lived, a quiet little nobody who was an easy target to pick on. I wonder if he had realized his “revenge” would be so soundly disregarded, would his outcome be the same? I wonder if someone, just one someone had picked up that paper and talked openly about it, shared it with the world, spread the word, would we be in this current crisis? Bullying is a serious problem that leads to many negative effects for victims, including suicide. Too many adults wrongly see bullying as “just part of being a kid,” a rite of passage if you will. According to the CDC, suicide is the third leading cause of death among young people. For every “successful” suicide there are at least 100 attempts and those bully victims, like Jeremy Wade Delle? Bully victims are between 2 to 9 times more likely to consider suicide than non-victims, according to studies by Yale University.

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This blog post, it isn’t written to any specific someone, not a person of a specific age, ethnicity, gender, race, socio-economic status, or religion, it is written to you, just you, as a plea to every single human being. It’s time to stop the madness of this epidemic. When did teaching children kindness and compassion get swept under the rug? When did we choose to deny our child is a bully instead of trying to figure out why and to help them? Contrary to popular misconceptions, bullies generally have friends and a high self-esteem. They are, however, more likely to be impulsive, or easily frustrated, and lack empathy for others. Us. Them. It sucks to be the “them,” doesn’t it? God forbid my child is a “them” I raised him/her better, he or she is a leader, the most intelligent, popular kid in school. It’s this socio-hierarchal power, privileged mentality children are taught. Us. Them. Harboring and teaching exclusivity, superiority and taking it out on the person who got your order wrong at Burger King. What’s the cost of this mentality? A few victims of bullying were; Steve Jobs, Albert Einstein, Bill Gates, John Lennon and Steven Spielberg. Just to name a small few. Now think about all the potential inventions and creativity that would never have made it to adulthood had they chosen suicide. Us. Them. Shame on Us.

Take from? Bullying is not normal behavior or just part of growing up. Bullying is not a harmless problem that we can erase after another child is sacrificed. And as for me, I will not rest until the day Jeremy Wade Delle, Rebecca Sedwick, Ryan Halligan, Megan Meier, Amanda Todd, Rehtaeh Parsons and countless others have a voice. I may be a quiet nobody, but for them, with them, I will have a voice. If it’s your child or teen who is acting like a bully, quit the denial and get them help, because bullying can have a negative impact, not only on the victim, but also on the bully and the school or community, ‘ell, on the world. Because in the words of Abraham Lincoln, “I would rather be a little nobody, then to be a evil somebody.” I just wanted to put up something a little high gravity to think about as we slide into the weekend. If you want to find out how you too can help, take a ride on the link following:

4 thoughts on “For Jeremy, Rebecca and 12 Others

  1. I am so glad you re-posted this, I remember it from before and as with many of your posts. It is passionate, relevant and needs to be addressed, Often times a bully has one or both parents who were also Bullies and that it is part of life. Well it isn’t and parents should teach their children morals, compassion, kindness and a slew of other things children are not being taught. Did I mention you look stunning in Red. Love you Dollface ❤

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